Trouble making a decision? Read this
Lost in Thought (1884) | Ludwig Knaus (German, 1829-1921)
Ah decisions, decisions.
Sometimes left sometimes right. Sometimes small sometimes big.
So seemingly insignificant but gradually change the trajectory of our life, sometimes in a huge way.
If you’re having some difficulty making a decision and have been going back and forth over something, let’s step into an all-in decisive energy and make our choice.
Here’s the perfect, quick reflection for you to do just that.
This is what we’re going over.
Why you need to make the decision
Where are you acting from?
If you’re feeling super afraid
Why you need to make the decision
Look, we all have some decisions that we need to make, but we procrastinate on facing them, we are very wishy-washy going back and forth, maybe we’ve become stuck in an “analysis-paralysis” or “what if’s” situation.
Whatever the case is, it’s important to know and really tap into the energy of WHY you need to make a decision, from a spiritual and energetic perspective.
The energetics of making a decision
Decisions require being ALL IN.
DECIDE.
You haven’t really decided if you’re thinking you can dip your toes in and “try it out.”
Have the courage to face life head on because … (this is the most important aspect to understand so I want you to read it carefully)
THE ENERGY OF THE DECISION YOU MAKE WILL DETERMINE THE RESULTS.
Plaster this into your brain and know it.
“The energy of the decision you make will determine the results.”
The energy behind the decision you make, or in other words how ALL IN you are or not, will show you the results you will get.
This decisiveness is HUGE.
Nobody teaches us this because it requires an understanding on energetics. And humanity has just now reached a point to be able to tap into that as a consciousness.
When you know how to harness the energy, you can know how to achieve the results.
SOOOO, if you want to achieve BIG RESULTS, you need to step into BIG ENERGY.
If you want big results, but you aren’t stepping into a big decision in your energy, guess what?
Disappointing results.
Capeche?
Your life will shift when you practice this energetic decisiveness.
It’s powerful.
Where are you acting from?
Or in other words, what energy are your embodying in your decisions?
This is the second part to understand here and it comes with the simplest and clearest question to ask yourself.
Do you embody love or do you embody fear?
The energy of love has so many spectrums, which can look like;
faith
believing in yourself + your dreams
taking a risk
breaking away from the logical mind to follow your intuition
confronting your fears and doing it anyways
patience, perseverance, and devotion
The energy of fear also has so many spectrums, which can look like;
believing you aren’t good enough, not XYZ enough
imposter syndrome
perfectionism
self-sabotage
talking yourself out it (often by making “logical or safe” decisions)
choosing to stay in the comfort zone
being too afraid to take a risk
So you need to ask yourself, what is the energy I am making my decision from?
Bring it into a black or white perspective; fear or love.
This will help you clear up any “maybe”, “I guess I can try it”, “hopefully”, “one foot in, one foot out” energy.
Stop the wishy washy bullshit.
Make a decision and know where your decision is coming from.
It’s fierce. It’s unapologetic. It’s scary and it’s brave.
Face the fear and do it fucking anyways.
That’s the decisive energy.
If you’re feeling super afraid
A word for you.
The more fear we feel, the bigger the decision usually is.
And sometimes the decision doesn’t seem like it’s a “big deal” but it is a big deal to our ego, our wounds/fears, and our nervous system.
Don’t dismiss or bypass your fear. If it’s super scary, that’s okay.
That just means that you are in a space now to confront a deeper part of your shadow, the place within us that holds all of our fears, wounds, and insecurities.
The more you do the work of confronting your fears, the closer and closer you become to yourself and believing in + creating your dreams.
You get to take your time, go at your own pace, and also learn how to feel safe + regulate your nervous system.
I have a few amazing podcast episodes you can listen to that dive deeper on this topic if you’d like to explore those.
Listen on the Goddess Essence Podcast.
Episode 13: Cultivating safety for sustainable growth.
Episode 16: There’s more to healing than mindset work
Episode 17: Sharing my fears about being seen (this one is a personal, vulnerable close up on moving through a huge fear)
I’ve decided that’s a wrap
Haha, get it? A stupid joke, but it cracked me up!
This was a powerful article.
Take your time to absorb this and allow yourself to make changes accordingly in your life.
We went over:
Why you need to make the decision : learning the energetics behind powerful decisions.
Where are you acting from? So you can get the best results & create a beautiful life.
If you’re feeling super afraid ; some tips + resources for you.
Happy soul exploration!
XOXO
Gurjot
